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HubPages ® is a registered Service Mark of HubPages, Inc. Login This is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service. After considering bariatric surgery for six years, I finally took the plunge!
Cons: Unlike gastric banding, a sleeve gastrectomy is irreversible. I didn't even know she had the surgery til she told me just before we had sex the first time, which was NOT the first night, but the way. To avoid personalized advertising based on your mobile app activity, you can install the.
Dating After Bariatric Surgery: Things Change - You will likely go on a lot of coffee dates, but there is a surprise bonus: you will be able to recite the full drinks menu at Starbucks, Panera, or your favorite local café. About 85% of people who get a gastric bypass have some dumping.
Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate. I met a guy who lost his wife from complications of surgery. It was during our first meeting he mentioned his wifes death and that he'd never date anyone who had done the surgery. He was quite surprised.... My personal thought is that if a guy can't accept me for who I am on the inside... I've also had guys who knew me before surgery ask me to go out. I will not - I feel I'm the same person... I don't mean to piss folks off but I probably will... If she's got to do the 'chew it and spit it in a cup' thing, then no. There can't be any problems with eating. She must be able, like me, to get an acceptable meal ANYWHERE. So I guess vegetarians are out too, LOL! She must be able to take part in the occasional cooking orgy. Y'know, where you team up to cook a really awesome, over-the-top meal, nibbling and drinking and fooling around the whole time, then sit and enjoy the results. A stapled nibbler most probably won't fit into that sort of foreplay very well. I got hooked up in February this year, and had the lapband surgery done, lost 17 more lbs since then picture is before any weight loss couple years ago. I really am liking this.. I will tell you from someone who dated~ maybe once every two years... I can't say why I haven't dated much other then I believe the guy needs to ask the girl old fashioned and they just haven't asked. But who knows, maybe they still won't after I shed all of this in a year. But I'll be healthier, and more confident of my self and the way I carry myself. To heck with those that don't like it! But don't you find it funny that guys will only date certain looking girls, then they fall in love with them, then the lady gains all of this weight, and the guy doesn't mind.... People are not born with a fat gene, I don't think there is enough medical reference to support this idea, though there are a few Dr's that claim it, it is not widely accepted. One thing for sure is that we need food to live, that's a fact. It is not like quitting smoking, or stop drinking alcohol, you can live without those, but food you must consume to live. The choices you make for food are vital to your health. People that are obese over 40lbs. Parents play a huge role in these unhealthy patterns, for example; some parents make you eat the whole plate, although you are full eating some, others reward you with food, some comfort you with food, and these are terrible habits to show your children. Food is only part of the equation, EXERCISE is a must to keep yourself healthy overall. Obesity doesn't happen overnight, it takes a lot of unhealthy nutrition and bad choices, some overeat due to stress, others due to indulgence and can't stop, either way it is a problem that one must recognize and do something about it. My comments were general non-gender specific. But to answer your question directly, I would date a woman who had a weight los surgery, sure why not? I wouldn't care what she did to get herself fit and healthy, if it took surgery good for her. Not sure what you really wanted to point out starting this thread. I dated a girl a while back who had the gastric bypass thing and loved her for how she treated me. I didn't even know she had the surgery til she told me just before we had sex the first time, which was NOT the first night, but the way. As it turns out, the girl I am in love with now had it too. I could care less. If someone is so shallow that this will be an issue for them, they almost deserve a dumb swimsuit model. Give ita couple years when her body starts to decline and she's still shallow and dumb. Then ask me who's happier!! My girl is gorgeous and treats me pretty freakin good. What more could I POSSIBLY ask for? If you are then great and let's go out. If not and you are just wallowing in self pity about how fat you are while sitting on the couch eating ice cream by the gallon... That doesn't define who you are.... I see it as you taking charge of your life and doing what is needed to get healthy. Too bad your so far from here. It's not obvious from the outside and it really only matters to the guy if you have to do things that make it obvious -- taking meds so often, no green vegetables, or some stuff like that. As far as I can tell, your surgery doesn't do that, so he doesn't need to know. When you get to know someone, that's when the details come out anyways, not on the first date. Would I date someone who had this surgery? Lap band is only one of the many wls procedures. My surgery was gastric bypass, which involves the reduction of stomach size as well as the intestinal tract being shortened. This procedure or any wls for that matter, is not a cure all! They are all just tools which allow some people to reach a healthy goal. The gastric bypass means there is less consumption because of a fuller feeling sooner average stomach is fist size, after surgery is only walnut size , also, there is less absorbtion of nutrients, which is the reason that throughout life after surgery there are required vitamins, etc, as malnutrition can occur if a proper diet is not followed. Goals are met with a balance of diet and exercise. Weight can be regained, due to poor discipline, lack of exercise, or improper dietary requirements. This surgery has made it possible for me to begin having a more active life again with a great reduction in the pain experienced in the past. Although I've not yet hit my goal, I will, and while my loss has been slower than some, I've not gained any of my weight back since surgery. I said that I was feeling healthier- not thinner. That will come in time, and when you've always been bigger then the rest, and you get smaller you will always think of yourself as bigger-not thinner side note there. Since loosing alot of weight, I have felt healthier. I excercise on regular basis. It is not a cure all. My health in general, sleeping trouble and even painting my toenails is soo much easier. I think another thing would be... Can someone help with that one? I don't care if the girl in question swore the whole time she was still heavy up and down that I was her soulmate, and cut off her ear like Van Gogh to prove it, that's all going to be forgotten when the butterfly comes out of the cocoon. I don't care if the girl in question swore the whole time she was still heavy up and down that I was her soulmate, and cut off her ear like Van Gogh to prove it, that's all going to be forgotten when the butterfly comes out of the cocoon. What's wrong with us??? We get along with the general public OK, and don't make bad dates unless you take me to a steak house and order me a steak, rare, and try to make me eat it, and then I get a little testy -- and I've only been thrown out of a FEW places -- but that's beside the point... Don't group us in like that -- we're really not a bad lot, and we can get along in most any place!! Just give us a potato and a salad, and we don't complain that much! That was a nice picture you painted, though -- all cooking and drinking and such in the kitchen together. Why couldn't it be lentils and beans, and just not Daisy the Cow??? But I say if something works 90% of the time or more, it's good enough for me. Let's make some other Generalizations and see if they work out okay. Nazis are bad The Dark Ages were bad times Drugs are bad Crime does not pay On and on... Sure you could argue each item in that list and make acceptions, but if you do, you're just a blowhard that likes to argue. The truth, however, is that people's minds, including mine and yours, are littered with destructive programs that we've picked up from a toxic society. Like it or not, heavier people tend to feel not-so-fresh about themselves and therefore feel less selective when choosing a partner. It's a shallow, vile way to be but this is the world we were brought up in. I get that, I understand that. Statistically, it's a lie. You are lying to yourself to make yourself feel better. It's okay, 99% of the population are perfectly comfortable lying to themselves about the world they live in, and actively persue more lies to keep the illusion going. Truth is, I wouldn't care to date anyone that wasn't completely comfortable with who they are and what their body looks like in the first place, because it's a sign of deeper issues than a stomach staple or band will be able to fix. Lest you call me cynical or pessimistic, I'm not saying anything a respected Psychiatrist would disagree with. Again, no, I wouldn't date a woman in this scenario. Don't worry about the many naysayers. Just be clear on what you want and why you want it. I applaud you for doing something to help you get healthier. As far as telling any guy later on down the road that you have had the surgery why would you? It doesn't leave any outer marks and it doesn't mess up anything. They have a problem then tell them to hit the bricks. I am a 50 year old Male who had weight loss surgery in March-2007. I am around 40 pounds loss and need to go 67 more... But Women didn't talk to me a lot--but now they just look and wonder. One thought I had to be on drugs--because I can't lose that much in 5 months---so she says.. Yes I'd date a lady who loss 55, 75 to 150 pounds. Why ask that question. Unless the Woman has skin hanging off of herself.. Because is all reality its a win win situation for a guy. This is why I say that, it seems that bigger women have a better personality generally speaking not always no pun intended but they are normally more well rounded people that are easier to get along with, without all the drama and baggage. So in the long run you are getting a woman who will appreciate you, with a good personality, and eventually the perfect body to go with the package. I used to date this girl in a town about twenty miles from here who was quite overweight. She had a gorgeous face and was a laugh a minute. I liked her sense of humor, and I always had fun with her. She moved away for awhile to another city and had the gastric bypass surgery..... She did not tell me she was going to do this,and I had no idea that she was planning it. She feels too good for me... She changed so much personality wise, that it went all the way in the opposite direction. It seems that in her case,too much self esteem ruined her.. I liked the old her better... Many people with some weight issues can be seen as depressed people. Suddenly many of us change. We become more active and we get into a new zone. Many of us meet new friends on top of that. I've come to know a few new people who once looked at me and looked away. I actuall was looking at this young Woman--mmmm--I'd say she was around 28 or 29.. I passed her by about 10 months ago. She was sitting with her girlfriend at a ball game. Here is is now 10 months later--48 pounds lighter too. I see them and they don't happen to know who I am. Now for me--I have not changed at all--except more energy. I saw one the other day and said--Hello-! I then reminded her about her and her gf's remarks,. She said she was terribly sorry and it wasn't her who said that. But I said--so am I any different now? She says--I did notice how good you are looking these days. I came in maybe 4 days later--I have to take my boys to spend some of their allowance money. I am suddenlt taken aback for real here... I say hi too and wonder--what the hell has happened? So i hold a small conversation sicne it's a day when it's not crowded. The conversation lead to--how she could not find a boyfriend and how she is alone... I actuall didn't feed into this. But what I am saying is--People are sometimey and they will do things often without thinking. Especially thinking the same way. Since having all of the trouble losing weight and now having it come off nicely. I have read all types of things to educate myself. It's a mind blowing thing--for sure... It's whats on the inside that counts, if they can't love you for that they are not worthy of your love. Think of all the women who are pumped full of silicone,,,,,,,,,but I guess it's the outside some are going for,,. Just had to throw in my 2c worth... Way to go FrostySweetie.... I am probally one of the healthiest eaters you will meet. Was raised vegetarian, my friends call me a rabbit due to all the vegies I eat. I can buy a container of salt and it would probally last several yrs , same with oil. Up til a yr ago was cleaning 6 buildings alone 6 days a week. Now I am 5'1 and 250lbs. My doctor even says I am healthy and eat healthy. Why she's never pushed weight loss. A yr ago I had a hip injury so some weight has come on. I just asked her to refer me for the lapband surgery due to small frame with with the hip injury,arthritis, degenerating spine and fibromyalgia, feel I would be much better off with the weight off. I am have done jenny craig etc... The diet plans they want me on call for meat almost every meal. I am not comfortable with that. Also not a big cheese eater, fast food eater or anything. I guess my point is not everyone overweight is a bad eater.
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As for me, I wanted to put my story out there -- not wishing to debate the pros and cons of weight loss surgery with every guy I met, so I stuck the statement right into my u profile. The food also needs to be soft or well-chewed. © 2018 WebMD, LLC. It may not be glamorous, but a date is all about the company, anyway. Index Exchange This is an ad network. She had a gorgeous face and was a north a minute. That doesn't define who you are.
